Robert Arnold Graytock

December 30, 1934 - October 10, 2018
Robert Arnold Graytock

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Robert Arnold Graytock, 83, passed away on October 10, 2018. He was born in Wilkes-Barre, PA on December 30, 1934. Robert attended the University of Scranton and the University of Detroit, where he was awarded a Bachelor of Electrical Engineering and was elected to Tau Beta Pi and Eta Kappa Nu, honorary Electrical Engineering societies. He later graduated from the University of Pennsylvania, having earned a Master of Science and Engineering degree in 1972.
Robert married Norma J. Talarico at St. Bernard’s Church, Bradford, PA on October 18, 1969. Robert was employed at Westinghouse, General Electric, the Central Intelligence Agency and the Department of Justice, where he was in Computer Security for more than 25 years.
Robert is survived by his wife of 49 years; his daughter Tara Ann Neville and son-in-law Thomas J. Neville, III; his grandchildren Thomas J. Neville, IV, Trey J. Neville, Trent J. Neville, Tyler J. Neville, Taylor Ann Neville, and Todd J. Neville; his sister Barbara Graytock Troyan and brother Jerome Graytock. He is preceded in death by his daughter, Gina Marie Graytock and his parents Michael and Anna Graytock.
A visitation will be held on Thursday, October 18, 1-3pm at Bucktrout of Williamsburg Funeral Home. A funeral mass will be offered on Friday, October 19 at St. Bede Catholic Church in Williamsburg. The burial will be on Saturday, October 20 at Noon at Fairfax Memorial Park, Fairfax, VA. The family would like to thank Woodhaven Hall-Williamsburg Landing for their kind care of Robert during his illness. Please visit for more details or to leave condolences. Donations can be made in Robert’s memory to the Alzheimer’s Association.


Friday, October 19, 2018
11:00 AM

Saint Bede Catholic Church - Directions
3686 Ironbound Road
Williamsburg, VA 23188


Saturday, October 20, 2018
12:00 PM

Fairfax Memorial Park - Directions
9900 Braddock Road
Fairfax, VA 22032


Thursday, October 18, 2018
1:00 PM - 1:00 PM

Bucktrout Funeral Home - Directions
4124 Ironbound Road
Williamsburg, VA 23188

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  • October 13, 2018
    Rose Barry says:
    Please accept my deepest condolences . May he rest in peace and may the Good Lord give you strength.

  • October 13, 2018
    Gail & Ed Harrison says:
    So sad to hear this news. Bob was a wonderful man who surly wanted to please his family. I miss him swimming in the pool and jogging around the Vineyards. Bob had a wonderful life. He will be missed. Praying for u and your family.

  • October 13, 2018
    Fay Bamond says:
    Bob was always such a gentleman. His family meant the world to him. I will remember him fondly and know he will Rest In Peace. God Bless Norma and Tara and the entire family.

  • October 14, 2018
    Sharon and Kenneth Gorleski says:
    May God's love make your grief bearable. Wishing you and your family strength and peace.

  • October 16, 2018
    Kris Amos says:
    I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. Wishing you strength through this time of grief.