Lowrey McNeel

December 21, 2020
Lowrey McNeel

Lowrey McNeel passed away on December 21, 2020; beloved husband of Carole Burroughs McNeel for over 50 years.

He is cherished in memory by his loving wife; brother, Alan B. McNeel (Connie), nephews, Benjamin J. McNeel (Tatum), Alex M. McNeel (Ann), William S. Manning Jr. (Susan), Jeffrey A. Manning (Kim), and Scott F. Manning (Vicky).

Lowrey was born in Atlanta, Georgia on November 8, 1940, to the late Martha Lowrey and Harry Louis McNeel.

The McNeel family moved to Columbia, South Carolina, where Lowrey later graduated from Eau Claire High School.  During his high school years Lowrey earned many honors, including student body president and class president.  While in high school he also attended Boys State.

Lowrey was an honor graduate at the University of South Carolina in Mechanical Engineering where he held several significant awards.  Among other honors was membership the Blue Key, a prestigious achievement for leadership and academia, as well as membership in the ACME for honors in engineering.  He was Commander of the Drum and Bugle Corp while in ROTC.  As a member and treasurer of Sigma Nu National Fraternity he made friendships which lasted throughout his lifetime.

After graduation he was sent to Guam for military training, and was among the first to be deployed to Vietnam with the Marines, who he greatly admired.  He was awarded multiple medals of distinction as a proud SEABEE, with plans to remain in the Navy reserve until full retirement as a Commander.

Later at the University of South Carolina Lowrey earned his MBA.  As a graduate at the top of his class he was employed by IBM, and selected to attend the IBM school in Poughkeepsie, New York, where he was elected class president.  After completing IBM school he was off to Atlanta, Georgia, where he met and married Carole.

Lowrey’s interests turned to commercial real estate where he worked in both REIT banking, and later in acquisitions for a large insurance company.

Lowrey was a man of faith from boyhood through adulthood and a longtime member of Peachtree Presbyterian church in Atlanta.  As an active member of the Seekers Sunday School class he both gave and received loving care and support from his many class friends.  After moving to Williamsburg Lowrey transferred their membership to Williamsburg Presbyterian church.  His church has always been a vital part of his life, and the Williamsburg Presbyterian members quickly became the McNeels new church family.

Lowrey’s hobbies were many and diverse:  Long distance cycling; and earning a private pilot license, plus commercial and instrument ratings; and photography were among his favorites.  Later in life a favorite hobby became researching family genealogy.  His memberships in the Sons of the American Revolution, National Society of Colonial Warriors, and Sons of Revolution were very important to him.  He spent hundreds of volunteer hours working on genealogy for others, receiving recognition for helping many with their research.

Carole and Lowrey together enjoyed hiking in the USA and abroad.  They also enjoyed traveling to foreign campuses for cultural study.  Lowrey shared Carole’s love of classical music, whether being local or abroad, which included jazz and chamber music from all over the world.

Lowrey will be sorely missed by all who knew him.  Carole hears over and over, “He was truly one of a kind with lasting impact”.  To know Lowrey was to know his love of life and people.  One dear friend wrote of Lowrey: “The unvarnished truth is that Lowrey is the real deal, nothing pretentious or phony.  He was friend to many and stranger to none. To know the joy of life as he lived it—a truly unique human being.”

H. Lowrey McNeel was laid to rest on December 29, 2020, at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk, Virginia, with military honors.


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  • January 13, 2021
    Elizabeth Rice says:
    Thank you for putting this obit in the State. I remember Lowrey well from being a Sigma Nu at USC with my brother Dick McPherson. He was one of nicest people ever. He even took me to a sorority party one evening where I became sick and he was just a gentleman! It's funny the things you remember. He was a close friend to my brother who is deceased so this note is in part for him. A good life, well led. Sympathy and love to Carole and family. Elizabeth McPherson Rice

  • January 13, 2021
    Jeff Brooker, MD, Columbia, SC says:
    Dear Mrs. McNeel and all Lowrey’s family: I too saw the notice in The State today of Lowrey’s passing just before Christmas, 2020 and extend condolences but also congratulations on his full and varied life. “Who could ask for anything more?” the song goes. I don’t recall Lowrey was part of the Sigma Nu “PRANK” on Clemson in November, 1961 but several of us were. This year, if we make it to fall, will be the 60th anniversary of a trick that would be prohibited currently but was, we thought at least, clever and fun. I think Lowery enjoyed being part of this group "back in the day" while excelling in studies and learning valuable life skills. Take care, be safe.

  • January 13, 2021
    Don McLaurin says:
    Sack was one of my favorite fraternity brothers - he truly understood brotherhood. While we lived in different cities after school we remained in periodic contact over the years. He was a joy to be around and always entertaining. He one of a kind and will be sorely missed by everyone who knew him.

  • January 18, 2021
    Tammy and Tom McRae says:
    Sending our thoughts and prayers

  • January 18, 2021
    Richard Wagner says:
    Very sad to hear of Lowery's passing. We worked together in Atlanta many years and were very good friends. I know both "Sack" and his good friend Art Gregory. We had many good times. We will all miss him.