James Marinos Kokolis

January 12, 2023
James Marinos Kokolis

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James “Mike” Kokolis passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 12, 2023, surrounded by his familyafter a courageous battle with a long illness. James was born in Vasilakia, Greece, on February 22, 1938, to Marinos and Georgia Kokolis.  The oldest boy of eightchildren, he was the sentinel of his siblings. With a few dollars in his pocket and knowing only a few words of English, he emigrated to the US in 1955 and lived the true American dream. Starting off in Hanover, Pennsylvania, then moving to Winchester, Virginia, and learning the restaurant business along the way, he eventually settled in Williamsburg, Virginia. He married the love of his life, Paula, on August 24, 1969. He opened the Southern Pancake House and then, most notably, the Gazebo Restaurant, and various hotels, welcoming tourists and locals with his smile and hospitality. He loved having a quick cup of coffee with his regular customers.

When he first arrived in Williamsburg, he ran a small delicatessen near the William & Mary football stadium, where he was loved by, and grew to become good friends with W&M students, many of whom stayed in Williamsburg after graduating from the College. An avid soccer fan, Mike became somewhat of an unofficial member of the W&M soccer team – attending games, hosting pancake breakfasts for the team during summer workouts, even traveling to Greece with the team when it played in an international tournament there. Williamsburg legend has it, the team often saved a seat for him on the bus when traveling to games. Loving education and school but never having the opportunity to go to college, Mike was a big supporter of W&M as an institution in general, so much so, that the College awarded him an honorary alumni status in 2005 – a source of great pride for him, which he loved to show by wearing his W&M Alumni hat.

Anyone who had the joy of knowing Mike was touched by his warmth, wit, humor and a mischievous taste for fun. Mike’s smile and personality would light up a room, but his greatest happiness was his family. He and Paula built an intangible empire of love over their 53 year marriage. Their children and, eventually, their grandchildren, were the center of his life.  To Mike, there was no better place than being at home with his kids andhis grandkids, or being at their games, shows and events.

That love spread beyond his immediate family to a large extended family. Siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, and close friends alike brought him endless joy.  He loved gatherings of family and friends and planning tripsbrimming with relatives, all of whom can share countless memories of fun and laughter that will live on in theirhearts.  A patriarch to his family and trusted and loyal confidant to family and friends alike, Mike was a “go-to” person for so many, always happy to help anyone in need of support, wisdom, or a kind word.

Mike is survived by his wife Paula, his children, Blake McLaughlin and his wife Nidi, Mario Kokolis and his wife Maria; Georganne Mallas and her husband Dino; Stephanie Pezzo and her husband Greg; grandchildren, Paige, Michael, George and Sara Kokolis; Will and Michael Mallas; Carolena and Domenic Pezzo; siblings Litsa Mexis, Niki Mageras, Toula Farantos, George Kokolis, Afrodite Saras, and John Kokolis; and many loving cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister, Kiki Stratis.

A viewing will be held at Bucktrout of Williamsburg on Sunday, January 15, 2023, from 3:00-5:00 p.m., with a Trisagion service offered at 4:00 p.m. A funeral service will be held on Monday, January 16, 2023, at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, 4900 Mooretown Road, in Williamsburg at 11:00 a.m. Interment will follow at Williamsburg Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church.


Sunday, January 15, 2023
4:00 PM

Bucktrout Funeral Home - Directions
4124 Ironbound Road
Williamsburg, VA 23188

Funeral Service

Monday, January 16, 2023
11:00 AM

Saint Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, - Directions
4900 Moore Town Rd
Williamsburg, VA 23188

Visiting Hours

Bucktrout Funeral Home
  • Sunday, January 15, 2023
  • 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM

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  • January 16, 2023
    Abigail Edwards lit a candle:
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  • January 15, 2023
    Richard Vanausdall says:
    Please accept my deepest sympathies. Mike was a wonderful person.

  • January 15, 2023
    Michael Flood says:
    My condolences to the Kokolis family, Mike will be greatly missed by everyone. I met Mike in 1980 when I arrived at W&M and played on the soccer team. I remember Mike as a warm, friendly and caring man who understood what it was like for someone to move to a new place and not know anyone. He was welcoming to all and great host wherever he went. My teammate Rich Miller and I coached the Williamsburg Soccer Club travel team that Mike's son Mario played for. We had a great time traveling the Peninsula playing other teams and from what I remember, the team did pretty well. Mike was an enthusiastic fan, I remember Paula trying to contain Mike's boisterous support especially when the referee calls went against us. I have enjoyed seeing Mike and sharing a pancake breakfast during my visits back to Williamsburg over the years and will miss seeing him. He was a great friend to the entire W&M and Williamsburg community. My prayers and thoughts are with the Kokolis family, Michael Flood

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