Gary J. Onder

March 3, 2020
Gary J. Onder

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Gary J. Onder, 67, of Williamsburg passed away on Tuesday, March 3, 2020.

Gary is preceded in death by his wife, Neva May Onder; parents Anne and James Onder; sister Marrian Callahan; brothers, James Onder, Jr., and Anthony Onder; daughter, Jessica Wormuth; and granddaughter Lakesha Defreece.

He served in the Army where he received the National Defense Service Medal. From there he went on to become a carpenter.

Gary was a huge New York Yankees fan, an avid bingo player, and when he got the chance he loved to go fishing with his friends.

Gary is survived by his sons James Onder and Gary Wormuth; daughter, Tomasina Wormuth; sisters, Judy Devantoy and Carol Onder; brother, Joey Onder; and grandchildren, Devin Wormuth, Treyvon Defreece, Taylor Leon-Guerrero, Kyle Leon-Guerrero, Jayden Leon-Guerrero, and Alexandria Leon Guerrero.

A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, March 10, 2020 at 10:00 AM at Bucktrout Funeral Home.


Tuesday, March 10, 2020
10:00 AM

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Williamsburg, VA 23188

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  • March 08, 2020
    Angela Denise Geissinger says:
    Mr. Onder, you touched my heart. You will be missed.

  • March 09, 2020
    Karen Thebold says:
    Rest in peace Uncle Gary xoxo

  • March 09, 2020
    Marge Griffin (Cohen) says:
    I remember when Gary was born! I believe he was the youngest in the family? My father, Harry Griffin, was Gary's half-brother and our families were close when we were all growing up. My condolences to all of Gary's immediate family.

  • March 09, 2020
    Joseph Onder says:
    Rest in peace dear Brother! You WILL be greatly missed! love ya Bro!

  • March 10, 2020
    Cindy DeBlock says:
    Rest In Peace Uncle Gary! I love you! Give my Mom a big smooch for me!