Cmdr. Edward M. Miller

March 24, 1953 - March 22, 2015
Cmdr. Edward M. Miller

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Cmdr. Edward M. Miller, USN Retired, passed away early on March 22, 2015 at his home in Toano, Va. He was born on March 24, 1953 in Middletown, CT. Ed is survived by his wife of 37 years Lynn R. Miller, 2 children Brian and Laura , 2 grandchildren, 2 brothers and sister. Ed lived a full life and had many great accomplishments. He is a graduate from The Ohio State University with a B.S. in Accounting and earned a Masters Degree in Finance from Old Dominion University. He received his commission in the United States Navy through ROTC at Ohio State and spent 22 years flying out of Naval Air Station Oceana. Throughout his naval career, Ed has logged 2,700 hours of flying the F14 Tomcat, has over 800 carrier landings, and made seven overseas carrier deployments.

Ed’s final adventure was serving as the District Financial Advisor for the Virginia Beach Office of First Command Financial Planning, where he managed an office of 11 financial advisors and was active himself in financial planning, providing comprehensive financial services to include cash, wealth and risk management.

Ed always was able to manage juggling a heavy workload and still save time for his family. Family always came first for him. He was one of the most selfless people anyone would ever meet.

Viewing for Cmdr. Edward M. Miller, USN Retired will be held at Bucktrout Funeral Home in Williamsburg, VA on Friday March 27, 2015 from 6:00pm to 8:00pm. A funeral service will be held at 11:00am, on Saturday March 28, 2015 at King of Glory Lutheran Church in Williamsburg, VA.There will be a separate memorial/burial service at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ed’s name can be made to the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Norfolk, 404 Colley Avenue, Norfolk, VA 23507 or online at www.RMHCNorfolk.com or to King of Glory Lutheran Church at www.kogva.org.


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  • April 03, 2015
    Barb Geraghty says:
    To Ed's Family, My sincere condolences for the loss of husband, father and grandfather. I met Ed as his client at First Command. As a fellow retired naval officer, we swapped a lot of sea stories and I appreciated his sage advice as well as friendship. I hope that you may take comfort in knowing that Ed made a positive impact on so many and will be missed.

  • March 25, 2015
    CAPT and Mrs. Joseph Jerauld says:
    Lynn, Please accept Lisa's and my deepest sympathies for your sudden loss. Ed had been my advisor for over fourteen years and his steady advice and good humor will be missed by both of us. Brian and Laura, we are so sorry for your father's passing and know that his legacy of service will continue with both you and your families. Joe and Lisa Jerauld

  • March 25, 2015
    Carl Panke says:
    Lynn, my deepest heart felt sympathies go out to you and your family. I echo my brother's comment about how blessed we were to get together 2 seasons ago. The world was a better place with Ed and he was lucky to have you as a life long partner. He will be missed. As a fellow Gold Winger, I have always been touched by the poem High Flight by John Gillespie Magee, Jr. I share it here for those that may not have ever read it. "Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings; Sunward Iíve climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds, ó and done a hundred things You have not dreamed of ó wheeled and soared and swung High in the sunlit silence. Hovíring there, Iíve chased the shouting wind along, and flung My eager craft through footless halls of air.... Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue Iíve topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace. Where never lark, or even eagle flew ó And, while with silent, lifting mind I've trod The high untrespassed sanctity of space, - Put out my hand, and touched the face of God."

  • March 23, 2015
    Jono Miklos says:
    May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face. And rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.

  • March 24, 2015
    Doris Goldstein says:
    My deepest sympathies to Lynn and all Ed's family - both personal and professional. Ed was a true gentleman and a kind soul. I am thankful I was fortunate to know him. My prayers are with you all.

  • March 31, 2015
    Larry Minnick says:
    My deepest sympathy to Lynn and to Ed's family. I am a retired Navy Veteran and a client of Ed's and just heard of his passing. Ed was the kindest and most concerned financial and life advisor I ever had the plesure of knowing. I will miss our great conversations and will keep his family in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • March 27, 2015
    Lisa Zerbes says:
    My Uncle Ed holds and always will hold a special place in my heart. My favorite memory is when my family would drive from IN to VA to visit. We had so much fun at the beach and would take walks after dinner to get frozen yogurt when I didn't even really know what "fro-yo" was (funny now that those places are almost on every corner!). My deepest condolences to my Aunt Lynn and cousins Brian and Laura and sending strength, comfort and wish for peace going forward. My uncle is now protected from pain and weakness. Godspeed and Uncle Ed I will catch up with you when I too am granted eternal peace with our Savior.

  • April 05, 2015
    Jay & Theresa Spare says:
    Our family is heartbroken over the passing of Ed. He was more than simply a financial advisor, we consider him a highly respected and TRUSTED member of our family. Ed always had time to mentor, counsel, or to simply talk about the finer things in life. He will be sorely missed but we know he is in a better place. God bless Ed and his entire family.

  • March 25, 2015
    Warren & Margie Tuthill says:
    So many of us were privileged to know Ed as a friend; genuine, loyal, honest, caring. An impressive naval officer and squadron-mate (Fast Eddie). A gentleman. He was so accomplished & successful but down-to-earth. A master of his profession. He cherished his family and softly, with great pride and love, would speak of their importance to him. We will miss you dear friend. Warren & Margie

  • March 25, 2015
    CDR George & Pam Michaels, USN (Ret) says:
    So sorry to hear about Ed's passing. Ed had been our 1st Command advisor for almost 15 years and we always appreciated his sage advice. He always managed to make our meetings entertaining with his understated wit. Fair winds to a fellow Tomcat brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Miller family.

  • April 04, 2015
    CDR Chris Hill says:
    The Hill Family will certainly miss Ed Miller. He was more than just a financial advisor these past 17 years. He was a true friend and mentor who gave life and spiritual advice to me and my family. God has a special place for him in his kingdom!

  • March 25, 2015
    Debbie Rumsey says:
    Lynn-I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.

  • March 25, 2015
    Alan, Lisa & Nate Charpentier says:
    To the family of Mr. Ed Miller: Please accept our deepest condolences. Ed was a wonderful financial advisor and will be greatly missed.

  • March 25, 2015
    Dan & Beth Theus says:
    Very sad news. We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Fast. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Dan (Reggie) and Beth Theus

  • March 30, 2015
    Paul Pompier says:
    We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Ed. He was one of my favorite F-14 Instructors back in the early 80ís. He was an outstanding mentor who, despite my best efforts, never gave me a ìDownî for questionable performance in the aircraft. Instead he became a mentor who gave me the confidence and motivation to improve and become a better naval aviator and officer. The world is a better place because of Ed - He truly cared about the people he worked with and will be sorely missed.

  • April 01, 2015
    Dave & Toni Chang says:
    We are so sorry for your loss. The last time we saw Ed, he said that things were looking good, so we were shocked to learn of his passing. He always had a smile on his face whenever he talked about his family. The smile got even bigger when he talked about his grandkids. Ed will be missed. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

  • March 28, 2015
    Jim and Wendy Waldeck says:
    We pray the Lord's comfort will be with you during this troubled time. So sorry for your loss.

  • April 08, 2015
    Jim and Keri Krohne says:
    You always cared about us and our family's well being. We will miss you Ed.

  • June 07, 2022
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    Cmdr. Edward M. Miller
    Cmdr. Edward M. Miller

  • June 07, 2022
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    Cmdr. Edward M. Miller

  • June 07, 2022
    The Staff of Bucktrout Funeral Home posted an image:
    Cmdr. Edward M. Miller
    Cmdr. Edward M. Miller

  • April 05, 2015
    Tony Cook says:
    I am so very sorry to hear that Fast Eddie has been called home. Goodbye old friend!

  • March 25, 2015
    Raleigh Kone says:
    Expressions of Sympathy Raleigh Kone has sent this Expressions of Sympathy card.

  • March 24, 2015
    Stephanie Davito says:
    Expressions of Sympathy Stephanie Davito has sent this Expressions of Sympathy card.

  • March 27, 2015
    Larry and Rosario Walker says:
    All good men leave a positive mark on their family, friends and professional associates. Ed was a very good man. Patient and instructive, balanced humor with serious intent, gave one confidence that he cared about the well being of others. Semper Fi old friend. The Walker family.

  • March 27, 2015
    Russell & Ginger Scherck says:
    Dear Lynn and Family, Ed has been there for our country and especially for our family for many years. We are grateful for his wise counsel and friendship. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Ginger and Russell Scherck John 14:1-4 (NIV) "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in Me. In My Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going."

  • March 25, 2015
    Skip Zobel says:
    Ed and I were F-14 instructors together in VF-101. A great RIO and truly nice guy. He made some great fighter pilots! My deepest condolences. Zobes

  • March 30, 2015
    Ray Tranchant says:
    Ed was a courageous warrior in the air, and a gentleman on the ground. He was liked by all of his Fighter buddies, and will not be forgotten! Ray Tranchant,VF-101, VF-33, VF-32

  • March 24, 2015
    CAPT Skip Sayers (Ret) says:
    Ed was a talented F-14 Radar Officer/squadron mate, accomplished Navy Comptroller, gifted financial planner and my good friend. We shared adventures while serving together in VF84 & VF101 and most recently he was our trusted advisor. Ed will truly be missed.

  • March 27, 2015
    Connie Eikleberry says:
    Ed was a wonderful man who knew how to enjoy life. He will be truly missed by all of us who knew him. But I know he is at peace and in God's hand now. Love you Ed.

  • March 24, 2015
    Gary Svatek says:
    Ed, Knowing you was a great pleasure and privilege. You always thought of others before yourself which made you a great man. We'll always remember you as someone to emulate. We know you're in a better place now. The Tomcat community mourns your loss buddy.

  • March 24, 2015
    Bob Mclane says:
    Ed. You would have been 62 today. You have left this earth too early. I will always remember our many adventures flying Tomcat around the world in VF-14. Fair winds and following seas to a remarkable man.

  • March 24, 2015
    Gary & Ginny Svatek says:
    Expressions of Sympathy Gary & Ginny Svatek has sent this Expressions of Sympathy card.

  • March 30, 2015
    Sandy Saunders says:
    I cannot adequately express how sorry I am for your loss. Fast was a good friend, an incredible aviator, and a great human being. God bless... Sandy "Critter" Saunders

  • April 04, 2015
    Rodney Stephens says:
    I just found out about Ed's passing and my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends through this very difficult time. I became a client of Ed's over 12 years ago and he has helped change my life. A very gentle caring man who always spoke about his love and joy for his family during our annual reviews. To a man who has touched the lives of so many, may you rest in peace. Semper Fidelis my Friend.

  • March 25, 2015
    Magic Quist says:
    I too was an instructor with Fast Eddie at VF-101 and flew with him there. He was absolutely tremendous in his job as an F-14 RIO and instructor, and yet he was as humble as anyone I've ever known ñ such an admirable, but rare, quality in that vocation! His smile was contagious and is indelibly imprinted in my mind. Ed will be missed by many. As has been said by othersÖ well done, Fast EddieÖ well done. RIP. "While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil." ~John Taylor

  • March 25, 2015
    Troy Snead says:
    I was surprised that my good friend Ed has passed away. I am truly sorry for Lynn and the family for the loss of such a wonderful husband and father. I remember the good times serving together at NAS Oceana. He will be missed.

  • March 24, 2015
    Corey Lessmann says:
    It has been a true honor and privilege to have called Ed Miller my friend and "First Command Battle Buddy". What a time he is having right now with Jesus in His Kingdom. Wow! Ed...save me a seat next to you at The Lord's "Company Dinner"! I'm sure we won't talk about recruiting! :) Love you and see you again

  • March 26, 2015
    David W Nichols says:
    Laura and family, Vickie and I would like to express our sincere condolenses for your loss. There are no words to ease the pain or sense of loss that you feel but know that you will carry him with you forever in your heart.

  • March 28, 2015
    Jim and Laura Webb says:
    Lynn and Family, Our deepest sympathy to you as Ed leaves us and now resides in a better place. We, like many others, are grateful for Ed's caring, compassion, and hours and hours of time ensuring our family was properly prepared for the future. His ability to explain in layman's terms the most difficult of financial concepts. He was a true blessing to Laura and me during our 26 years in the Navy and now in the next chapter of our lives after retirement. Thank you for sharing him and for your service to our country. I personally enjoyed our conversations during our meetings which never began with financial matters. We always started out talking about flying, and never was there a frown on either of our faces when we did. With deepest appreciation, thoughts, and prayers. -Jim and Laura Webb

  • March 27, 2015
    Dave Hyre says:
    Lynn and family, I am so saddened to hear of Edís passing. You come across few people in life that have the unique qualities Ed possessed. My fondest memory is his affable nature and infectious laugh. You couldnít help but have a good time in his company. As a young man, I admired him as a model of the person I would like to be. My life was made better having known him. You are in my thoughts.

  • March 24, 2015
    Alan Panke says:
    Lynn and Family, I am so sorry to learn of Ed's passing. Ed was truly one of the greatest men I've ever had the privilege of knowing. As a college kid, he was my idol and he continued to be my model of how a man should live. Lynn, you and your kids have my deepest sympathy. Our hearts are heavy... I am so glad we re-connected in Columbus 2 years ago.